military question

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Many military spouses have very little understanding of how the military works and what reasonable expectations are. When a military unit deploys, there are very few circumstances that would allow a member not to deploy. Discuss some unrealistic expectations that a spouse may have of the military. Under what circumstances should a military member be exempt from deployment?

Reference: Hall, L. K. (2016). Counseling Military Families: What Mental Health Professionals Need to Know (2nd ed). New York: Routledge.